As the phrase goes “you can’t swing a dead cat” without hitting the word “tone” in today’s media.
Get toned in 5 minutes a day!
Tone up on vacation!
Get toned with kettlebells!
ENOUGH ALREADY!
From Webster’s dictionary:
Tone (noun)
Definition of TONE
1:vocal or musical sound of a specific quality <spoke in low tones> <masculine tones>; especially: musical sound with respect to timbre and manner of expression2a:a sound of definite pitch and vibration b:whole step3:accent or inflection expressive of a mood or emotion4:the pitch of a word often used to express differences of meaning5:a particular pitch or change of pitch constituting an element in the intonation of a phrase or sentence <high tone> <low tone> <mid tone> <low-rising tone> <falling tone>6:style or manner of expression in speaking or writing <seemed wise to adopt a conciliatory tone>7a (1): color quality or value (2): a tint or shade of color b: the color that appreciably modifies a hue or white or black <gray walls of greenish tone>8: the effect in painting of light and shade together with color9a: the state of a living body or of any of its organs or parts in which the functions are healthy and performed with due vigor b: normal tension or responsiveness to stimuli; specifically:muscular tonus10a: healthy elasticity :resiliencyb: general character, quality, or trend <a city’s upbeat tone> c: frame of mind :moodExamples of TONE
- He replied in a friendly tone.
- They spoke in hushed tones.
- Don’t use that rude tone of voice with me.
- the low tones of an organ
- The speech had religious tones to it.
- The author’s tone shows her attitude toward the subject.
- The professor’s condescending tone irritated some students.
- a bright, dark, or light tone of blue
- the softtones of the painting
Tone (Verb)
toned, ton·ingDefinition of TONEtransitive verb12: to give a particular intonation or inflection tointransitive verb
1: to assume a pleasing color quality or tint2: to blend or harmonize in color
Ok, in all of that do you see one reference to “tone” being used as a verb to describe the shape of a women’s body? No. Not one. In fact, this might just be the Grammar Nazi in me coming out, but if you put any of those definitions in for the sentences you see in any women’s magazine today, they’d at least be laughable, at most, downright confusing:
“Get inflection or pitch in 5 minutes a day!” “
Ok, now given, there is one:
3a: to impart tone to :strengthen <medicine to tone up the system> b: to soften or reduce in intensity, color, appearance, or sound :mellow —often used with downc: to change the normal silver image of (as a photographic print) into a colored image
- It implies to women that they will get “bulky” if they lift anything heavier than 5 lbs less than 12-20 times.
- It keeps women enslaved as cardio bunnies, constantly in a state of disappointment, frustration and a body that won’t change even though they do hours of elliptical work.
- It’s false advertising that perpetuates myths and is misleading.
So ladies, if you come train with me, you won’t “tone up”, because in all honesty there is no such thing. I am also a professional musician and I recognize the first definition as such…if you tell me you want to tone up, I will assume you have bad intonation. There, now we are both confused.
No, if you train with me, you will gain strength, endurance, you will grow “shape” and maybe a little size, because you know what? When you lose the fat, you have to have SOMETHING to see under it and if you have no size in the first place, you can guarantee you won’t have any to see when you lose fat.
A side note, I would NEVER try to make anyone look like how I want to look, or how I only want them to look. If you want to look a certain way, I respect that and I will do all in my power to get you to that ideal.
But just for the record, I want to look like this; Ms. Erin Stern, courtesy of Flex Magainze:

Or my favorite, Mrs. Monica Brant:
(courtesy of SatioPhotography.net)
Last weekend, October 7-8, 2011 I spent two days at the NASM Live Workshop and my head is about to explode from knowledge and all the things I’m dying to share with you!
First off, let’s say my ego took a real blow. Back up; first off, I didn’t realize I HAD that much of an ego until I got there. Between struggling to do a single leg balance, figuring out what to do for my excessive low back arch compensation and getting worn out by STATIC stretches, then throw in finding out I was doing it all wrong….let’s just say I’ve been humbled.
To back track a little bit (and so my clients don’t start to look for another trainer) let me clarify by saying no, I don’t really mean that I’ve been doing everything wrong. You see, I have been training for years; I was certified by ISSA 3 years ago and this past year in January I received my NASM-CPT certification, no easy feat. Besides the comps for my master’s in music, easily the hardest and most stressful thing I’ve done. There is simply a TON of knowledge that goes into understanding the material, and the certification is just the basics to get you started!
I studied for my exam by reading the book, doing the workbook, watching the videos and listening to the audio, doing the flashcards, practice tests and all that, but not a lot of hands-on. That’s unfortunately because I’m a tactile learner, which simply means that 1)I’m getting started in building my business and since I’m on my own, not part of a gym, that means the building process can take longer (read, not as many clients as quickly) and 2) there’s a lot of information that you can forget.
It was really a lot of fun, especially watching the “meatheads” in the room get schooled on how they’re old bodybuilding myths (i.e. anything gotten out of Muscle and Fitness, or Fiction” as they called it) were full of error, not scientifically based and overall….wrong. The emotional teddy bears got snatched out of a lot of people’s hands.
What were the emotional teddy bears? Here are some:
- There is no need to do full squats (ATG) unless prepping for a sport that requires it. Going that low causes the pelvis to tuck under which takes the lumbar spine out of neutral and therefore puts greater stress on the spine.
- Plie or sumo squats are also not such a good idea. There is a high increase in abduction, which, coupled with the fact that most people’s knees cave inward already, is a recipe for nastiness.
- Balance and stabilization work is HARD, not sissy easy
- Tempo is SUPER important and if you think you can hold a plank for 3 minutes, you’re doing it wrong.
- If you think you are doing crunches or squats right, you’re probably doing it wrong
- If you haven’t assessed someone first, all you are doing is GUESSING.
- You don’t need to work out 6 days in a row
- You can get an EFFECTIVE workout in 9 minutes. Enough with the excuses.
- Almost every ab exercise you’re doing probably is more of a hip flexor exercise
- You train MOVEMENTS not MUSCLES
- You cannot truly isolate a muscle
And I could go on and on!
What were some of the main things I learned that I will be sharing?
Form
I thought I was a form-Nazi…until I went here. Then I realized how wrong my form was. My form is still better than 99% of the people in the gym, but was it optimal? Not until now. I will elaborate later.
Assessments
You need to assess everyone with whom you work with, and this is not optional. If not, you have no idea what compensations they have, what they are capable of, what you need to stretch, what they DON’T need to stretch,etc. Beyond the initial assessments, there should be CONTINUING assessments after each phase is completed.
The OPT Model
I have actually tried to stay pretty close to this with my clients since learning this, but my eyes were REALLY opened up to how effective it is and how truly difficult the first phases can be. Hypertrophy, max strength and power? No, those are the easy phases. Stability and strength endurance? BEYOND necessary. How necessary? So necessary that I will be scrapping my current program and going straight to Phase I myself, treating myself just like a beginner.
Pushups – you’re doing it wrong
This is where my former confusion of form comes in. First off, when I joined the military I did MASSIVE amounts of pushups. They didn’t care how you did them either, as long as you “broke the plane” and went past parallel. One drill sergeant told us to do wide pushups, because since you had a shorter distance to go down, they were easier, so I’ve been doing them that way for at least 8 years.
I’ve been reading up a bit on articles since then, and I thought you should keep your shoulder blades depressed and retracted during all movements, including pushups. Well, at this workshop I got schooled. Apparently, I am so jacked up from years of doing them “wide” that even though I could do them on my toes and all, I had a bad case of scapular winging going on and was told that I need to do them on a Smith machine and progress downward until I get my form righ, my core is strong enough and my shoulder blades move correctly (they need to move smoothly outward across my rib cage and back…mine want to just go up).
I”ll address a lot of these in more detail in later posts, check my Music Strong site for more posts, but this is just a precursor to some of the amazing stuff I learned! I’ll be posting more as I go back through my notes, too. In the mean time, look at this list of stuff, does any of this strike a nerve with any of you? Leave me your feedback and let the humbling begin.
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For a long time, my business, Music Strong, had a very sad website, if you ever visited it. That is, until recently. If you go to www.MusicStrong.com and check it out now – things look VERY different. One of the great things about that site is that it allows me to import my blog posts from here onto that site, so you’ll see all the posts that are here, over there. And, since it makes sense to have things in one place, I will gradually be transitioning things more and more to writing my blog posts and posting them at www.MusicStrong.com/blog/. They will be under the different categories of fitness, flute, etc. but I wanted to let you guys know, the ones to subscribe, the ones who find me via Google searches and however else you find me, that all my content is over at the main site.
So, check it out, read the posts, leave feedback and I’ll continue to bring you the best information I can. In fact, I have a post up right now over there called “Supplements for General Health” – seems to be a question I get a lot and having worked for 2 years at The Vitamin Shoppe, believe me I heard every question in the book about supplements, so that post should help clear some things up.
So come see me on my new site, browse around, read the articles, check out the store, share with your friends and leave me some feedback! I’ll be adding things almost daily as I go along, so check back frequently.
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Meet Staci: Your New Powerlifting Super Hero | Nerd Fitness.
Ladies, this post is foryou, yet another nail in the coffin of the “bulky” women myth. This lady is living proof of eating a lot, lifting heavy and doing sane amounts of activity CAN and WILL get you the body that you want. Read and be inspired.
Ladies, PLEASE don’t be afraid to lift heavy! The body you want comes from lifting heavy things, not hours of endless cardio and from eating stuff as close to nature as possible in smaller amounts, not pre-packaged Lean Cuisines.
Oh and if you want more inspiration, check out some of my other blog posts on the topic:
Blogs to Check out: Fit Females!
What Can I Eat? Making Sense of Dieting NonSense
By the way, I’ve gotten a lot of requests from my clients AND my friends about nutritional information. I’ll be posting something about that in the near future, so we on the lookout! And without further ado: Meet Staci!
Ladies, meet your new hero.
Men, prepare to be humbled.
My friend Staci, or Spezzy as she’s known around the Nerd Fitness community, has one of the best transformations I’ve ever seen.
She’s also a nerd (check out that Waluigi costume).
- If you are a female, you will be inspired beyond belief after following Staci’s adventure.
- If you are a dude, you will be in awe of Staci’s lifting power – I bet she can out lift an overwhelming majority of the male population.
- If you’re a robot, I’m really freaking impressed that you’re reading my blog.
- If you’re my mom, thanks for letting me borrow your car to go to the Nerd Fitness meet up tonight in Boston.
So, where was I?
Right! Staci!
Staci’s story is awesome for a number of reasons, but a few in particular stand out to me:
- Working a sedentary desk job, Staci slowly packed on weight and ate like a typical unhealthy American.
- Before getting educated, she tried to get in shape by doing what 95% of the female population does when they try to lose weight: she ran a lot and essentially starved herself – Not surprisingly, she dropped to an incredibly low and unhealthy weight.
- She educated herself, cleaned up her diet, and immediately started feeling and living better.
- She found the Nerd Fitness community, discovered a love for barbell strength training, and started lifting HEAVY weights.
- She’s now in the best shape of her life, healthier and happier than ever before.
For the women out there who are scared about “getting too bulky when lifting weights,” this article is for you. If you’re curious what happens to a girl who packs on twenty pounds of muscle and starts lifting heavy weights, you’ll find your answer here…I have no doubt it will surprise the hell out of you.
Staci in 2009 – 170 pounds
This is a picture of Staci back in 2009 before she decided to make some changes in her life.
As I said previously, Staci works a typical American desk job where she spends all day in front of a computer screen.
Starting around age 16, she started to put on weight relatively steadily through high school and college and after, when she reached her peak at 170 pounds in 2009 at the age of 25.
Here’s her background:
“Growing up I was never comfortable in my own skin. Never. I was always the weird one. I mean, I raised rabbits for a hobby! RABBITS. The only after school activity I did was band, and never participated in any sports. I always thought I was fat. I always hated my legs, and would refuse to wear shorts in the summer because I was so uncomfortable with them. If we went to the beach, I’d wear shorts over my bathing suit bottom.
I was super timid, super shy, afraid to talk to ANYONE I didn’t know, even if we were all out with a group of people.”
I asked her what a normal day used to be like for her back in 2009:
“I’d get up at like 9, go to work, have a Slim Fast shake because I never had time for breakfast. I wasn’t a big snacker but I ate a lot for my meals – I’d typically go out to eat for lunch every day and get a sub or something from D’angelos or Subway – and it was never the 6″ one, it was the big one. And chips. Lots of chips. Or french fries. Getting home I’d either go out to eat with friends or plop in front of the tv playing video games for hours.
My favorite meal was tacos and nachos. I just asked my old roommate what I used to eat because I didn’t remember, and she said ‘oh, you used to plop in front of the TV with a big plate of meat and cheese, and go ‘Hm, I guess I should have some chips with this.’ On many occasions we’d order pizza around 11PM too. On top of all of that, I used to smoke a pack of cigarettes a day!”
I’m sure this is a daily scenario that you can relate to: too tired in the morning to eat a healthy breakfast, lots of unhealthy meals, general apathy towards what you’re eating and when, and no real direction. She went to the doctor, who told her that she had high cholesterol and needed to lose some weight if she wanted to live a long healthy life.
Except that she wasn’t really sure how to lose weight and get in shape. And she certainly didn’t want to get bulky by lifting weights (gasp!), so she did what most women do when they want to lose weight: eat way less and run way more.
Staci in early 2010
To get started on her weight loss journey, Staci joined a gym and started doing the elliptical as much as possible (because that’s what you do when you want to get skinny, right?). She said:
“At first I was only able to make it like, 10 minutes, but eventually got up to about an hour a day. Keep in mind though, I’d smoke a cigarette walking up to the gym, and light up again immediately after leaving.”
I always thought that being super skinny would make me happy, like it was the one missing piece of my life. I bought countless exercise machines for my apartments, which all ended up sitting in the corner gathering dust. I bought DDR thinking that if I could exercise in a video game, that would do it. But it didn’t. I even tried “Sweatin to the Oldies” (which, for the record, everyone should do, because it at least gets you laughing and moving). But nothing stuck.
Until I was finally ready. I can’t say what it was, but I just got up one day and said “ok, I’m going to do this now”. I can’t tell you what it was – I didn’t set a date ahead of time, I just woke up knowing it was time. I went on weight watchers, I started running. But as I started to feel the effects of the weight loss, I got obsessed. I’d weigh myself every day, I got a scale that measured every ounce so I’d know what I lost.
Following this unhealthy plan, Staci went from 170 pounds all the way down to 117 pounds over the course of a year. And then she started to open her eyes…
“I did lose the 50lbs that I needed to lose, but instead of ‘finding myself’ and becoming comfortable in my own skin, I ended up being LESS comfortable. Everything I did was based on appearance. I couldn’t do certain things because I was afraid I’d gain an OUNCE back. It got to the point where a friend of mine would IM me all the time with just “EAT SOMETHING”. I was tired all the time, I had no energy to do anything even when I was sleeping like 10 hours a night. the bags under my eyes were insane – I simply wasn’t getting the nutrients i needed.
It was at this point that I dated a bodybuilder for like, three weeks (hey, we all make mistakes, right?). He informed me I was doing it all wrong (but didn’t tell me what to do right, just said “youre doing it wrong). That made me start researching nutrition and strength workouts because I was so incredibly unhealthy, tired, and weak all the time. I got a set of 5lb dumbbells and a Jillian Michaels DVD and tried doing pushups. I remember struggling doing chest presses with the 5lb dumbbells. I was so weak. And I wouldn’t use weights at the gym because I was so scared of all of the boys on the weight floor. SO SCARED.
As I found more info on nutrition, I started questioning Weight Watchers, and finally stopped going after I asked a question on how something was healthy and he pulled the line, “we’re not trying to get healthy here, we’re just trying to lose a little weight”. I started doing more research, read Good Calories, Bad Calories, and started my transition to eating more Paleo in April or May 2010. I upped my calorie intake to like 1500 a day and immediately started to feel better.”
[Steve's note: I understand that this representative of Weight Watchers certainly doesn't reflect the beliefs and views of all employees at Weight Watchers. However, I do think WHAT you eat is very important along with how much you're eating."]
Staci starts weight training, goes full Paleo, finds Nerd Fitness
On June 1st, 2010, Staci’s work office opened up a gym with free weights. Because she was working out with coworkers rather than random strangers, she felt comfortable with strength training; she felt okay asking coworkers questions on different exercises. Over the next few months, from June until late August, she continued to educate herself on eating better and getting stronger:
“I finished the paleo transition in August or September, and stopped counting calories. One of the best decisions I’ve ever made in my life; it’s a freedom I can’t even describe. I just…ate when I was hungry. I gained weight, but I stayed the same size clothes, so what the scale said didn’t matter. I went from 117 pounds (at my lowest) to around 130 pounds and felt GREAT about it. My scale broke in May, so I threw it away and only weigh myself probably once a month these days out of pure curiosity.”

This is Staci at 117 lbs. on the left (doing her best “deer in the headlights” impression), and 131 lbs. on the right.
It was right around this time on her search for Paleo diet information that she stumbled across Nerd Fitness and saw my latest article about the Legend of Zelda (her favorite video game series too). She joined our community, signed up for one of the monthly challenges, continued to put her focus on strength training, and made sure she ate enough to fuel her workouts.
And then things got interesting. After tons of encouragement from members of the Nerd Fitness community (thanks Dantes!), she began a torrid love affair in October that most women would scoff at.
Staci began barbell training.
And not wimpy barbell training either. I’m talking old school heavy deadlifts, squats, overhead presses, and bench presses – the exercises usually reserved for strongmen in the back corner of the gym:
“When I say that the second I touched a barbell I fell in love, I’m not joking. When people say to me, “oh, its not healthy to lift that much, etc…” Lifting to me is like going and playing basketball is to someone else. Its a hobby, and a passion. I’m not doing it because I have to, I’m doing it because I want to. I’m simply happier days that I deadlift.”
Staci gets super strong.
Beginning in October 2010, Staci jumped headfirst into the world of power lifting. Over the following six months, she strength trained like her life depended on it, keeping track of her gains and making sure she ate enough to continue getting stronger. I honestly cannot tell you how refreshing it is to hear that from a woman! She packed on another ten pounds of muscle and got incredibly strong.
Seriously, how many 5’4″ females who weigh 140 pounds do you know that can deadlift 315 pounds?
Here are her weight training stats for those six months:
Over those six months, Staci put on ANOTHER 10 pounds of muscle while strength training like a World’s Strongest Man contestant and eating A TON of food to make sure she could continue to get stronger. She raised her deadlift from 135 pounds to 315 pounds, added 50 pounds to her overhead press and 50 pounds to her bench press.
You’re probably wondering what happens to a woman’s figure when she goes through this transformation.
Prepare to be shocked.
Staci Now

Believe it or not, she’s 11 pounds HEAVIER (142 pounds) in the picture on the right (May 2011) compared to the picture on the left (131 pounds, October 2010).
So what the hell happened? How the heck does she look like she weighs less even though she weighs more?
She packed on the right kind of weight while getting rid of the wrong kind.
When you strength train with very heavy weights for low numbers of repetitions, you build incredibly DENSE, tight muscle. It’s funny, but if you really want that toned look in your legs, stomach, and arms – picking up small weights and doing lots of repetitions isn’t doing anything – it’s really heavy weights with low repetition that will sculpt the body you’re after.
On top of super heavy strength training, Staci had to eat between 3000-4000 calories per day (all healthy calories, mind you) to put on the extra weight. Had she not overloaded her system with calories, she wouldn’t have gained an ounce.
As we’ve learned from Mark Twight, trainer for the actors from 300, “appearance is a consequence of fitness.” Rather than worrying about every calorie, every ounce of food, and every pound on the scale, Staci put her focus into getting stronger – she ate to get stronger, she exercised to get stronger, she lived to get stronger.:
“The thing that I really gained the most in all of this is that I’m now comfortable with who I am. I’m comfortable in my skin, I’m not nearly as shy and awkward as I used to be, I’m not afraid to try new things. I stand up for myself. I learned about failure and success, and I’m not afraid to try something (and fail) over and over again even if people are watching. My attitude for life pretty much just changed. I still remember the day I looked at my legs and said “you know what, these are the legs that help me deadlift, so who cares what they look like.
So the whole point in all of this is really that yeah, appearance is one thing, but it’s not the main goal. I would gain ten pounds tomorrow if it meant I could add 50lbs to my deadlift.”
Staci is now a machine that can’t be stopped. She joined a Crossfit gym back in March and now does crazy things like “1000 burpees on the 4th of July” for fun. Yeah, she’s nuts…in the best way possible ![]()
What Staci eats
Want to know what you need to do to pack on a lot of weight as a female while lifting very heavy weights? Here’s a look at Staci’s weekly routine for eating:
- Every Sunday (or whatever works, but usually its Sunday) I cook a few pounds of boneless skinless chicken breast. I then portion it out into 3oz portions and keep them in ziploc bags. If I don’t have time for that, you can get all natural precooked sausage (both chicken and pork) that works just as well as a “bring to work” meat.
- 5AM: pre-workout: (first thing in the morning) - protein shake. ( nothing special). Its not paleo, and i love every sip of it. Then I go and work out. If I go to the gym with a full stomach, I will not leave with a full stomach.

- 7:30AM: on my way to work: apple or pear.
- 9:30AM: sweet potato with cinnamon. I keep them at work, and cut them up, throw it in the microwave for 5 minutes with cinnamon. Comes out amazing.
- Another protein shake somewhere in here between breakfast and lunch.
- 11:45AM-12PM: lunch: two of the bags of chicken I precooked and a bag of the steamfresh vegetables. The entire bag, its like 3.5 servings of vegetables. My favorite is broccoli, cauliflower, and carrots.
- Lunch option 2: spinach salad with shrimp, red peppers, green peppers, red onion, lemon juice.
- 2-3 snacks in the afternoon. Could be one of these: Apple with almond butter, bell pepper (I eat them like apples… I’m weird), carrots (they even make carrots cut like chips), bags of chicken (yes, those 3oz bags of chicken I consider a snack as well, not just a meal), a zucchini (yes, plain, raw, uncooked), celery with almond butter and raisins, strawberries, frozen mixed berries.
- 7-8PM: dinners: 95% of the time it’s meat (steak, sausage, shrimp, salmon, or chicken) with one of the following: red peppers, green peppers, red onions, broccoli, carrots, cauliflower (steamfresh bags!), and/or summer squash and zucchini
- Every once in a while i make something awesome, like this: http://cfscceat.blogspot.com/2011/03/apple-and-onion-stuffed-pork-chops.html (but really, that takes a lot of time). When i DO make something like that, i make it in mass bulk and will eat it for the week.
- In the winter, I’ll usually make a beef stew on Sundays that I can eat for a lunch or two as well.
Seems like an absurd amount of food right?
That’s because it IS an absurd amount of food. This is what Staci does, day in, day out in order to gain weight so that she can lift heavier weights.
And I think you’ll agree with me that despite all of this extra work to pack on a lot of weight, the last word you would use to describe Staci’s physique these days is “bulky.”
Why was Staci successful?

Yeah, I’d say that’s a pretty solid transition, how about you?
So let’s do a quick recap why Staci was so damn successful:
She educated herself. When Staci started her weight loss journey, she didn’t really know any better and didn’t know where to turn…so she did what she thought was right: she starved herself and spent hours and hours on treadmills and elliptical machines. After that, she started doing her research and learned how to eat properly. She did the research on strength training and started learning how to get stronger.
She focused on strength, not her weight. We know that “appearance is a consequence of fitness.” Rather than worry about her weight and how it fluctuated on a daily basis, Staci focused on getting stronger. She tailored her meal plan (which is quite extensive) around her getting stronger. She understood that it is ALMOST F***ING IMPOSSIBLE FOR WOMEN TO GET TOO BULKY FROM LIFTING WEIGHTS. Unless you are eating 5,000 calories a day, doing a workout program specifically designed to pack on lots of big muscle, and taking performance enhancing drugs, you will not get bulky.
If you strength train while eating a normal amount of calories, you will lose the fat on top of your muscle, and leave behind the muscle you already have – giving you that toned look. Make the mistake of just eating less and running more, you’ll burn through both fat and any muscle you have as you lose weight.
She had a community of support. Staci jumped headfirst into the Nerd Fitness community, asking questions about strength training, participating in our monthly challenges, and asking for support in her quest to live a healthier life. She now also has a community of Crossfit folks at her gym that help support and push her to be stronger and faster. She knows that she has 2,000+ people on our message boards who encourage and support her every single day she’s in that gym.
She ate right! What you eat will be 80% of your success or failure when it comes to fitness and health. Staci tried the “eat way less food” method of weight loss, and it turned her into a weak twig that couldn’t lift 5 pound dumbbells. She educated herself, started focusing on eating the right food, and now no longer cares how many calories she eats. She has boundless energy, way more confidence
She tracked her workouts. You can go back through Staci’s old posts on the message boards and see exactly how much she was lifting and how she was training over the past year. On weeks where she didn’t see enough success in the gym, she adjusted her diet. On weeks when she didn’t feel as healthy, she could figure out what needed fixing and how to fix it. As long as the amount of weight on the ends of the bar kept going up, she knew she was progressing in the right direction.
Be strong like Spezzy
I love Staci’s story because she tried different methods, educated herself, and learned how to get healthy the right way. She focused on getting stronger and eating healthier, and as a result her appearance followed suit.
She doesn’t bother stepping on a scale anymore, and she doesn’t count calories. She eats when she’s hungry, she eats to get stronger, and as a result she’s healthier and happier than she’s ever been in the past. She is now full of confidence and feels comfortable in her own skin, something that she’s never had in the past.
I’ve highlighted a number of successful success stories over the past few weeks (like Saint, Tony, and these 6-week success stories): ordinary people, with ordinary desk jobs, who have had tremendous success in radically leveling up their lives. Although everybody’s story is unique, they all have common themes that helped them succeed:
- They cleaned up their diet, focusing on real foods and less crap.
- They focused on strength training and getting stronger rather than agonizing over what the scale said.
- They tracked their results to make sure they were properly progressing.
- They had a community of people for support and help.
Do you have any questions for Staci? She’s more than happy to hang out in the comments or on the boards and answer any questions you have relating to weight training, her mental or physical transformation, and anything in between. I’m just excited that I now have an article to reference anytime a female reader tells me “I don’t want to get too bulky.”
Leave a comment or question and she’ll answer it! She’s nice like that.
Now if you’ll excuse me, I’m gonna go work out!
-Steve
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It just occurred to me that I never made this announcement! Back in July I made the announcement that I was starting a beach boot camp class. The class was a success and we have had lots of new people and changes since then.
We have had a reporter come out and do a full page story on us in the Sunday paper and it was all over the PanamaCity.com website. (you can read the article if you click that link). He took some great photos and even a video! The video is on the website, too! Check it out: www.PCBeachBootCamp.com/classes.html The picture to the right is one that he took.
So, I decided the class needed its own website!
Right now we are about to launch a Holiday Shape-Up Challenge. More details are up on the blog at www.PCBeachBootCamp.com/blog.html I’d love to have you sign up and be part of the challenge!
I’ve got the articles from the paper there, links, updates on class times and locations (did I mention we added an afternoon class and are adding other occassional classes?) and there’s even a store where you can purchase single sessions, a Buy 3 get 1 Free deal, Music Strong T-shirts and even equipment that I strongly believe in.
So the question is, why are you waiting? If you are interested in the ONLY Panama City Beach boot camp class there is, then head over to the website and check it out! Take the poll, read the articles, buy a Tshirt and we’ll see you on the beach! (or at the Walking Park if afternoons are more your style)
Make sure you sign up for the free newsletter while you’re there, that way you can be the FIRST to know about upcoming class schedules and even get special discounts! Here’s the link to sign up! http://eepurl.com/bj3Qr
I know I know, I’ve been pumping out a lot of fitness articles, most seemingly having little to do with the flute or music world.
For those of you musicians missing the musical side of things, I apologize, but just like it pays to listen in rehearsal with the conductor talks to another section and rehearses them (instead of tuning out) you just might learn something beneficial to your own musician-focused workouts if you pay attention to the seemingly “meat-head” articles.
I confess I’m a little obsessed with the weight loss aspect of things, because I myself am losing weight and want to share the knowledge with people. I’m not just a musician and I’m not just a personal trainer, I feel like I have a voice and I want to use it as best I can to bust apart the myths and bring the truth to whomever happens across the blog.
Musicians, do you need to know how to squat? Absolutely! Any Alexander Teacher will go on and on about babies’ perfect posture when squatting. While my squat post seemed to have little to do with musicians, if you can control your body under a bar with heavy weight, not only will you be strong, but you can make your Alexander Teacher proud by having a correct Use of Self while performing the lift!
What about The Secrets of Being Lean? What if you aren’t losing weight? What if you want to gain, or think it flat out doesn’t apply to you. Oh, but it does! Did you read it? Take away the “weight loss” or “lean” part of the equation and insert a musical term like “practicing”. How many of your non-musician friends understand the joy you get from locking yourself in a practice room for hours? You have to put up with ridicule and stares just like people who are fitness minded get when they insist on healthier food at restaurants.
Oh yes, there is crossover.
I am doing a bit of studying as well and since I do not want to just bring you anecdotal stories and theories about how weight training can help musicians be stronger and play longer pain free, or how stretches help and which ones are best to use before playing, I want to get my facts right and bring you the studies that back up my findings. There is enough anecdotal nonsense and bro-science in the world, I don’t want to add to it.
So, please bear with me as I seek to bring you more meaningful and evidence-based “strength training for musicians” related-material. It is coming, I assure you. In the meantime, take these articles that are already up and the ones forthcoming and apply them to life outside the weight room. You just might surprise yoruself at the take-away.
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I’m very excited about today because I’m going to my first personal trainers live workshop. There are several conferences and workshops put on throughout the year and this one is put on by my certifying agency: the National Academy of Sports Medicine. I learn by doing so this will be a great refresher for me and I’m hoping to not only pick up some new ideas but meet some new people!
Eventually I would REALLY love to go out to one of the Perform Better Summits or their Learn-By-Doing Seminars, but I just haven’t gotten the funding to go yet. I live down at the bottom of the country by the ocean which, while it has its perks, also means there isn’t a large metropolitan area or airport nearby and everything is far away.
If you haven’t heard of the Perform Better Summits before, you should really check them out. Here are a breakdown of a few of them:
Three Day Functional Training Summits
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There will be four/five presenters at each location. In the morning session each presenter will give a 60 minute lecture on their topic. In the afternoon each will direct a corresponding Learn-By-Doing station. Attendees will be divided into smaller groups and rotate to each station.
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Benefits of Attending the Functional Movement Screen Seminar
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3 Lean Body Secrets No One Has Told You | Articles.
Oh how I love this article. Why? Because it speaks the truth about what it actually takes to not only GET that lean body but more importantly KEEP it.
It means being weird, sometimes. Or what your friends might perceive as weird.
You might be riduculed.
Once you get off the fat train and onto the weight loss wagon you might notice the amount of discouragement you receive from your peers. Those people you thought would support you instead try to sabotage you! They see you losing weight and their first instinct is to bring you food and say “oh one donut won’t hurt, why not go off your diet for one day”? And in the long run, they are right, but what they don’t tell you is that they will try to do this to you EVERY day and that WILL hurt you.
In fact, let’s talk about that for a minute.
Those of you who have lost weight, were you surprised at the amount of people, friends even, who didn’t support you? They got mad at you, turned their backs on you, became snotty or what have you while they saw your success? Sure, they liked you when you were fat, but when you actually did what you said you were going to do and started taking the weight off, suddenly they didn’t want to hear about your struggles any more?
There are a few reasons for that.
- It makes them realize that THEY are all talk because they see what it takes to get it done and they don’t want to admit their laziness.
It’s true. If you don’t do the work to lose weight (and come on, you KNOW what it takes, deep down, right?) then you are not putting forth the effort, you aren’t doing the work, it’s YOUR FAULT. Nobody makes you fat but you, and no one takes that weight off but you. It’s easier to complain than to do the work and that’s why your friends don’t like you all the sudden, because it’s so much easier to have a friend to complain with and share in the blame game, than it is to actually suck it up and quit with the extra nibbles. I know, because I have been there. I like the extra bites. But I know that when it comes down to it, those extras add up, and suddenly, I’m whining about not losing and my friend is. - Your success makes them feel like you are bringing their weaknesses into the light. Aka: you call them out without meaning to.
This goes along the same lines as the first point, but isn’t it true? Why do we envy people? They have what we don’t. Some times we can change that. If they have more money, well, get off your butt and go MAKE more money. The government won’t give it to you, you have to, as Dave Ramsey says “get up, leave the cave, go kill something and drag it home”. YOU are not entitled to anything. This includes money, cars, fame, or that hot body that you want. You want it? Go after it and do what it really takes. Stop kidding yourself. You KNOW what you need to do but most people would rather complain about why things aren’t happening than looking inside saying “you know, this is going to be a butt-load of work, but I want it, so I’m going to do what it takes”. This includes fat loss. It takes HARD work to get that body. It was hard to pass up the extra bites out of the candy dish at work. It was hard to get up and go do your walk every day like you know you needed to. It was hard to drag yourself out of bed early to go to boot camp class. or to workout with a trainer, or to pass up that extra whatever it is and eat more protein. Fat loss sucks because it’s HARD. That’s why so few people succeed. We’re not good at doing hard. We want it and we want it now because I exist I have the right to have it.
NO, you don’t.
You have the right to go out and do it and get it, but you don’t have the right to just become it. That’s why you’re still fat. Ouch. The truth hurts. And that’s why your friends don’t like you. You going out and DOING it brings light to the fact that being fat IS your fault, you CAN do it and all they are doing is complaining. No one likes to be called out.
Oh wow, it’s easy to get on a soap box isn’t it?
What I said might hurt and you might be saying “but I have a medical condition! It’s genetic! My parent’s fed me too much junk as a kid which meant I was a fat kid and I can’t be anything but fat!”
Ok, fine. It’s still your fault.
No, it’s not your fault that you have a condition, you have “fat genes” or your parents didn’t know the difference between a box of Swiss Cake Rolls and an apple. What IS your fault is what you are going to do about it.
If you are sitting here saying those things, then the answer is, you’re going to complain and blame….and stay right where you are.
I can say that, because I have fit in that category for too long.
Brief Explanation of Why I Can Say This Stuff
I wasn’t a fat kid, my parents aren’t fat and I didn’t struggle with body image growing up.
HOWEVER….
I was doomed.
You see, my mom, her mom and her grandmother ( my great-grandmother) AND my dad’s mom (my grandma) all have hypothyroidism. To varying degrees, and I may be the worst out of the lot, only because I’ve had more tests done than they have. You see, I competed in a figure competition and while I wouldn’t change that experience for the world (I did some seriously hard work and I reaped the rewards of watching my body change almost daily before my eyes), I did go about it blindly and stupidly and probably had a hand in wreaking my own health without knowing it. I hired a well-known coach (he produces Olympians so I thought “get the best!”.) who did not provide hardly any support, would not sub out anything (I hate asparagus and cream of wheat but no, I had to eat them several times a day….really??) and gave me cookie cutter programs of 6 days a week training and 2x’s a day cardio. Sadly, the norm in the competition world. If you see that, it’s the mark of a man or woman who doesn’t know the science behind it all, but sees it work on a few (maybe themselves) and gives it to many. This is otherwise known as “bro-science”.
In any case, the addition of “fat burners” several times a day probably did nothing for my pre-disposed thyroid.
What happend? Well,after the post-competition rebound weight gain of 20 lbs, I developed a habit of binge eating that destroyed my relationship with food that lasted for 2 years and culminated this past year in the resulting weight gain of my highest weight: 156. I gained 20 lbs. in only a few months. On a 5’3″ person, not so good. My competition weight? 114 lbs. A couple years ago I kept trying to lose weight, couldn’t and finally got to the point where the brain fog was so bad and lack of energy so pronounced as that I couldn’t get out of bed (literally) that I saw a doc who ordered tests, finding out 1) my thyroid had shrunk almost in half on one side 2) It hardly worked at all 3) what it did produce did not convert to the active form.
What does that mean? Means I am on Armour Thyroid meds (combo T4 and T3) for the rest of my life and the dosages will have to be constantly tweaked according to my lifestyle.
Also means I have a NASTY time losing weight.
Point in case. I was 156 in March. My fighting weight is a happy 120. If you’ve seen my wedding pictures, that’s where I was. I decided that after much therapy I had broken the addiction to food and binging and was ready to try weight loss.
I lost 3 lbs in 5 months.
Says to me something’s wrong right? First trip to the doc showed T3 levels were still about the levels of an 80 year old man. So I upped the meds. Came back in July and everything showed great! Doc gave me the standard I have no idea what’s wrong with you answer “you’ll just have to work at it a little harder”.
He must not have heard me because at the time I was
- biking up to 100 miles/week
- leading 2 beach boot camp classes (participating as much as leading)
- Lifting 3 x’s a week
- Training several times a week
- Alternating trying to run with swimming (due to a hip injury that won’t heal)
- Restricting calories
Yeah, the mantra “move more, eat less” didn’t seem to be working. Until my massage therapist opened my eyes. She said
“Are you being consistant”?
The truthful answer was NO, I wasn’t. I was tracking “everything” but leaving an awful lot out of the log, so I hit my 1500 calories but in reality was eating more than that. No idea, because the extra bites of cereal, grapes, peanut butter, candy, you name it, didn’t go into the log.
I said ok, enough, I am the problem. Let’s fix this.
So I have been HONEST with myself, logging everything. Hitting my protein more often than not and my calories almost daily. Yes, I’ve had slipups and those days have cost me progress, but I’m aware and honest and guess what? I hit a new low today of 144.6! Not that much but mind you, this is a learning process and every little ounce of fat loss is a victory for me. I am staying consistant. Consistant with my tracking methods, honest, consistant with EVERYTHING.
I bemoaned my state for so long saying it had to be something else, my meds weren’t right, blah blah blah. But really, I wasn’t being honest with myself.
So if you are fat, more than likely, you are the problem. BE HONEST. What are you not counting, not logging, lying to yourself about? Just write it down and don’t feel like you have to make yourself have a large deficit, make it a small one, stick to it, and on days you feel like you can go lower, go lower.
Did I mention most of my weight loss has come in the last few weeks when I have been LESS active? Yeah, I’ve gone to 2x’s a week lifting, not participating in boot camps and the cycling has come down. Mostly this is due to the hip injury I’m getting looked at, but the good news is, my body responds positively to less. That’s also a bummer
I can also say that the journey will be more difficult for some than others. Maybe you have medical conditions, maybe you don’t. Maybe you have an unsupportive family/spouse, maybe you are surrounded by people rooting for you. Whatever it is, just go for it! It’s your life, and life is too short to live in excuses.
There is, obviously by my case, more than one way to lose fat/weight. Sometimes people can lose by just moving more (not in my case), some by just eating less, some by just being consistant. The equation is always the same: Calories in vs calories out, you have to burn more than you consume. Period. How people’s bodies respond to different styles of training, different foods etc. are all different so the specifics of that formula will change as well.
- Some respond better to heavy exercise
- Some respond better to very light exercise
- Some do better on larger deficits
- Some do better on smaller deficits
- Almost everyone responds well to cycling programs (be it calories, carbs, both…)
There isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach as that figure coach made me believe. Your body is different, so go find out what makes you different, how you respond. But believe that weight loss is possible, because it IS! Give it time, but go do it. Don’t live another day under your own excuses. And if you need help, well, that’s why I’m a trainer.
I can train you, I can point you to fat loss experts (Leigh Peele is one – I highly recommend her Fat Loss TroubleShoot if this article rings a bell with you. Lyle McDonald is another, and you can see the items of his that I endorse on the boot camp site or on my fluteangel.net site. He is the expert at this and can teach you so much, I HIGHLY recommend his books, especially the Guide to Flexible Dieting), and I am here for you.
Contact me and we’ll get started!
So, QUIT WITH THE EXCUSES! If you want it, go get it!
And read the article above. Well, shucks, I’ll post it here.
If you all aren’t subscribed to Fresh Food Perspectives and you have any interest in healthy food and recipes at all, then you should be. The author, Jenna Bradock, is a registered and licensed dietician and she loves to post not only recipes but helpful tips, favorite foods and uses and all kinds of goodies. I got this gem in my inbox this morning and since I LOVE breakfast and oatmeal, I thought I’d share it with you. In fact, on a side note, if you love breakfast too, there’s a man dedicating his life to it…no I”m not kidding. You can check out his site with endless breakfast ideas at www.MrBreakfast.com 
So, without further ado, here is her post on Oatmeal and the recipe to follow!
It’s Oatmeal Weather
That’s what I thought as I walked outside this morning to let my dog out. Mid 50′s makes me want to forget my usual smoothie for breakfast and break out the crock pot and steel cut oats. Yes, the crock pot.
My dad introduced me to using a mini crock pot for cooking steel cut oats. I love steel cut oats because of their texture. Let’s pause for a moment to discuss the difference between oats.
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Steel cut oats start basically the same as Old Fashioned, they just haven’t been rolled out flat. Steel cut oats still have the bran of the oats which translates to more fiber and a lower glycemic index than rolled oats. (This means that the rise in blood sugar after eating is less than when you eat rolled oats.) So they are a better choice although any oatmeal is better than a poptart or doughnut in the morning. =)
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The major deterrent to steel cut oats is that they take a long time to cook. This is where the crock pot comes into play. However, I don’t want to get up 3 hours before breakfast to turn it on. My dad introduced me to the timer-crockpot system. At Target, you can purchase an outlet timer that has a digital screen on it. You just type in the time you want the outlet to turn on, plug the crock pot into it, and turn the crock pot to “on”. Simple and breakfast is waiting for you when you get up. My dad’s recipe is super delicious. To be honest, I still don’t get mine to turn out quite like his. But here is his “super scientific” recipe. Have fun with it and add whatever sounds yummy to you!
Dad’s Steel Cut Oats
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If you haven’t noticed yet, my main site, www.MusicStrong.com is looking different these days! The original site was just a placeholder until I could find a program I liked and since I like WordPress so much, I decided to go with them for re-doing the Music Strong site.
If you go visit it now, you’ll notice there’s a lot missing, but don’t worry, that information will be coming back as soon as I can get to it. A quick shout-out to Jonathan Nation for the work he has done so far. Jonathan has been invaluable in helping me start my business! Not only did he help me come up with the name Music Strong, he has set up the new website for me with what’s there now. So if you like his work, check out his website, or his podcast/website www.StartingCube.com – he’s in it for entrepreneurs and wants to help them out. So if you’d like some help or some infomation, check out what he’s done on my site so far and then go check out his stuff; he does a great job!
You’ll see on the new website that my blog posts here also show up over there (which is really nice!) and I will also be adding other things as time goes on: Bio, Store where you can buy not only training packages with me, but boot camp classes, Flute information, etc.
So, keep a lookout, things are changing and the site will be complete in no time!

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